It's Hard Being a Christian... (But It's Worth It)

I’ll let you guys in on a little secret: It’s hard being a Christian at a secular college.

There, I said it. My goal is to be in this world, but not of it. But sometimes that's really hard when I'm constantly surrounded by the things of this world. It's not even that I'm tempted to participate in any of this world's actions, especially on a college campus. I've been there, done that, and it's just not worth it. No, it's more that I get offended just by sitting in a classroom and listening to conversation (or professors). But a spirit of offense is not from God, and I have to remember that when I do feel angry or upset.

Here's something you all need to know: Whether you're a Christian on a secular campus, like me, or in a broad sense, a Christian in this secular world, your faith will be offensive and offended. Sometimes nonbelievers don't like Christians talking about their faith. That's okay, because I'm still going to live out my faith, even if it's with actions instead of words. You being a Christian may be offensive to some people, but that's not your problem.

See, it's the same concept as "No one can upset you unless you let them." No one can offend you unless you let them. Therefore, when you offend people by showing the love of Jesus in your life, it is their choice to be offended. They could choose to ignore you, but instead, they choose to be offended. But you shouldn't be offended by their offense. In fact, you should probably be excited, because you just planted or watered a seed in their lives.

Being a Christian in a secular world also means that you will be offended. In fact, I was offended earlier today when a guy in my class used my Lord's name in vain and dropped a curse word (the F one) like it was no big deal. But, after thinking about it, I chose not to be offended. Does it upset me? Absolutely. But should I be offended? I don't think so.

His choice of language upset me, but it did not physically hurt me. It did not change the fact that Jesus Christ is Lord, and that He lives in my heart. It did not change the fact that God forgave me of my horrible sins and loves me as His child. It did not change the fact that I'm a Christian. Instead, it strengthened my faith.

When you find yourself becoming offended, upset, frustrated, or angry with someone who is directly or indirectly attacking your faith, channel those emotions into something good. Use that opportunity to show that person the love of Jesus. Plant and water a seed. You'll both be better off for it. Just as people can choose to be offended by your faith, you can choose not to be offended by their lack of.

Remember, though, that this does not mean we as Christians walk around this world with a "holier-than-thou" attitude. Being humble is key. How can we show Christ's love if we're too busy believing we're better than others?

The fact of the matter is, Jesus loves everyone, and He commands us to love all as well (even when we're offended). I'm going to start giving that a try, how about you?


Blessings,
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